取回一份Reflection Paper，高興的是自己第一次在Reflection Paper 中取得A-，但更高興的是欣賞自己認真的做，亦遇到一位認真改的老師。

以往與朋友相處的問題中引申了自己在待人接物態度上的不足，在Reflection Paper 中也有提及。其實這兩年中自己已改善了不少，學得去關心別人，學會欣賞別人，學會站在別人的角度看，但近期似乎遺忘了，很多時候，心直口快，傷害了身邊的人，然而自己卻不為意，老師觀察力很好，看得見我的不足，在Reflection Paper 中給我意見，亦鼓勵我努力。檢討Reflection Paper 後Send了一封給老師，告訴他我那一刻的感受。

Dear Lai Ching,

Today I get back my paper and I read through the paper. Your comment arouse my reflection again. Just want to share with you here.

One part in my reflection paper memtioned that my personality is similar to what i did during the role play. You know, many time people around me will comment me that I am an assertive and rational guy which rarely concern others' feelings. Actually I did concern, yet many times I treat people around me as good friend so I always kidding with them and at times, this will make others be hurted. I still remember that two weeks before, we go to find you and I make jokes again. I said "Mainland Girl" to Ivy. And it was you to stop me and remind me I did wrong.

In fact, I have change my attitude a lot these years. My friends also observe this point. You know, two days before I go camping with friends and we have causal chat at night. They comment me positively in many aspects, but one point they hope me to concern more is my attitude with friends. Yes, I always ignore it before. It seems I need to take this point seriously after I know that many people have such concern on me.

In your comment of my reflection paper, you ask me how I will do in the future in this aspect. I can just told you I will be more aware of my wordings. I do appreciate I love kidding with friend and at the same time I also realize that some of my friend will be hurted. Something that cannot be treated as joke like saying "You are fat" toward a girl. I will be more aware it.

Just want to share my feeling with you here and also want to thank you very much for your implicit guidance.

Clive

　 　學會感謝，你才會懂得珍惜
　 　學會道歉，你才會懂得寬恕